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Mentorship is helping and encouraging others by sharing what you know and caring about their well-being.

Mentorship
Grade Level: K-12
 
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  • Caring
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SEL Skills
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  • Social Awareness
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  • Self-Direction and Engagement

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  • Be honest. Don’t deceive, cheat, or steal.
  • Have integrity. Do what you say you’ll do.
  • Keep your promises.
  • Be loyal. Stand by your values.
Responsibility
  • Do what you are supposed to do. Try your best.
  • Persevere. Keep on trying.
  • Be self-disciplined.
  • Think before you act. Consider the consequences.
  • Be accountable for your words, actions, and attitudes.
Responsible Decision-Making

Make decisions based on rationality, ethics, and effectiveness.

Social Awareness

Assess and be sensitive to the feelings and needs of others.

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Make rational, ethical, and effective decisions to find the best solutions to problems.

Self-Direction and Engagement

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Students will explore the concept of mentorship by identifying the qualities that make someone a good mentor, practicing mentoring through a role-play activity, and reflecting on how mentorship encourages growth in themselves and others.

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Activate Prior Knowledge

  • Think about a time when someone helped you learn a new skill, like riding your bike, tying your shoes, or playing a new sport. Why do you think they helped you learn that skill?
  • Have you ever helped someone else learn something they didn’t know before? What did that feel like?
  • How does it feel when someone believes in you and encourages you?
Kindness 101

Kindness 101 Video

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Discussion Prompts

Think about the video.

  • How did Ray’s mentor influence his personal and professional life?
  • What qualities make a good mentor? How did Ray’s mentor demonstrate these qualities?
  • How can you show appreciation to someone who has made an impact in your life?
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Activity Materials

  • Students will need access to typical school supplies (paper, writing utensils, etc.)

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Activity: Mentoring New Skills

  • Pair students up for a mentorship role-play scenario.
  • One student will be the mentor, and one will be the mentee. Students will complete two rounds, so each person has a chance to play both roles.
  • The mentor will have 3 minutes to teach the mentee a new skill. They may need some time to brainstorm their special skill.
  • To help students choose a skill:
    • Option 1: Allow the mentor to decide which skill they want to teach, giving them a chance to share their unique talents. You may provide a list of ideas for students who need inspiration.
    • Option 2: Provide a list of skills for mentors to choose from. Examples include:
      • Draw
      • Juggle
      • Fold paper designs
      • Clap out a rhythm
      • Memorize words to a song or chant
      • Dance
      • Whistle
      • Make paper airplanes
      • Meditate
      • Tie a knot
      • Solve a math equation
  • Close the activity with a reminder: being a mentor is more than teaching a skill. Mentors encourage, guide, and care about the other person’s success and well-being.

  • Reflection Questions:
    • What were the most challenging parts of being each role (mentor and mentee)?
    • What things did your partner do that made them a good mentor?
    • What did you learn about yourself as a mentor?
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Journal Prompts

K-5

  • Think about a mentor in your life. What makes them a good mentor?
  • If you could mentor a younger person, what skill would you teach them and why?
  • You can mentor someone for big or small skills, and sometimes it’s just encouraging a friend to learn something new. How do you show encouragement to your friends?

6-12

  • Think of a mentor in your life. How did they impact you, and what qualities make them a great mentor?
  • How is mentorship different from friendship, and in what ways do they overlap?
  • Why might people sometimes be hesitant to be mentors? What could hold them back?
family connection

Family Connection

Educators: Copy the Family Connection and email it to parents or click here to download a PDF version to email or print.

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Discuss

Use these questions to start meaningful conversations about mentorship.

  • How can we support each other in learning new things?
  • Why is it important to both teach and learn from each other in our family?
  • Why is it important to encourage each other to learn new skills?

Activity

  • Each family member chooses one small skill or talent they can teach the rest of the family.
  • Hold a show-and-tell night where each person demonstrates their skill and mentors the family members to learn it.
  • Ensure every family member has a chance to highlight their skill and mentor others.

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