What I’ve Learned 652.2
Watch an interview with Michael covering some of the stories that grabbed headlines in 2009.
It’s traditional to start the New Year with resolutions designed to help us live healthier, happier, and more fulfilling lives. But it’s also useful to reflect on some of the things we’ve learned over the years, the things that make us not only smarter but wiser.
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For instance, I’ve learned that trying to be a good person is a lifelong commitment and that it often requires me to do the right thing even when it costs more than I want to pay.
I’ve learned that kindness is more important than cleverness and that carrying grudges is foolish and self-defeating.
I’ve learned that my dad was right when he told me, “Where there’s a will, there’s a way,” and that tenacity is more important to success than talent.
I’ve learned that pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional and that I have a lot to say about my own happiness.
I’ve learned that a life focused on fun and pleasure rarely leads to happiness or fulfillment.
I’ve learned that in my personal relationships and in the workplace I’ve got to set limits because whatever I allow, I encourage.
I’ve learned that the things I like to do least are often the things that need to be done most.
I’ve learned that it’s easy to fall into self-righteousness and that neither the intensity of my feelings nor the certainty of my convictions is any assurance that I’m right.
I’ve learned that unless I translate my thoughts into actions, my great ideas and good intentions are like unlit candles.
I’ve learned that I cannot lie myself out of a problem and that the problems I ignore don’t go away, they just grow bigger.
What are some of the things you’ve learned? Please share them by posting comments here.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
Comments
One of your best essays stated with exceptional clarity. Bravo!
Posted by: Allan | January 4, 2010 4:29 PM
Happy New Year, Michael.
You hit the nail on the head again. I cannot add anything. You covered it all so well.
Thank you and God bless.
Posted by: Thomas Helliwell | January 5, 2010 2:48 PM
I've learned that when your strategy is wrong, your tactics are irrelevant.
I've learned how true it is...when someone was once asked how he would have lived his life differently, he replied to the effect...I would have done the same, but I would have kept my eyes more fully open and would have loved those around me more completely.
Posted by: Mike Hulten | January 6, 2010 12:02 PM
Yes, this is one of the best commentaries you have written. Too bad you don't practice any of it within your own organization. I guess it's always easier to correct others, isn't it?
Posted by: Mr T | January 6, 2010 12:40 PM
I've learned that it's easier to see other people's faults than to see my own.
I've learned that goals/resolutions you make are just a guide. When you achieve them, you have to set higher goals and keep moving.
I've learned that life is mainly routine and work; holidays come once in a long while. Enjoy them but don't wish to remain in a partying mood permanently.
I've learned that the people I work with are also part of my family: my work family. I am to love them and mentor them and give them my attention just like I do my real family.
O, I've learned a lot.
Posted by: Azu | January 8, 2010 5:42 AM
Great post!
I've learned that emotions are more powerful than intellect and are a stronger influence on behavior.
Posted by: sa | January 8, 2010 8:37 AM
I really enjoyed your commentary and have always used your commentaries to uplift, until I read the the comment from Mr. T, and then I was very disappointed. My thought is wow, do really practice what you preach.
Posted by: unknown | January 8, 2010 8:46 AM
I've learned that it's important to listen to all others with respect...and to discern whose words to trust.
I've learned that it's critical to hold high ideals, even when I can't always meet them myself. I may be labeled a hypocrite, but I will continue to hold the high ideals so I can strive to meet them.
Posted by: Yme | January 8, 2010 11:26 AM
Michael, the excellent information you provide through your work, your organization, and your commentaries benefits countless people every day, and you even provide these commentaries for free! Thank you!
Posted by: Rob McCleary | January 8, 2010 11:27 AM
Another excellent commentary. I have learned (in the words of another) that "I may have been a victim in the past, but if I remain a victim, I am now a willing volunteer." Furthermore, while I may not have been responsible for my past, I am now fully responsible for my future and what I become. So help me God.
Posted by: Richard Innes | January 9, 2010 8:39 AM
Wonderful post.
I’ve learned that even when treated with great disrespect and lack of integrity, it is important to behave toward those treating you this way with respect and integrity. I am not a religious man, but doing unto others as we would have them do unto us must surely be at the heart of all our values and beliefs. Behave this way and eventually the fact that you have done the right thing will reap its rewards, both physical and spiritual.
Thank you, Michael, for the continuing encouragement your messages provide.
Posted by: Chris A | January 11, 2010 10:44 AM