Coaching for Character 623.2
I’ve spent lots of time with some of the world’s most successful coaches, and many think about character a lot, especially traits that are important to winning: self-discipline, perseverance, resiliency, and courage. They pay less attention to virtues that make a good person, citizen, spouse, or parent: honesty, integrity, responsibility, compassion, respect, and fairness.
The problem is, even at the amateur level, many coaches are hired and paid to win, not to build character. Unless it interferes with performance, worrying about the kind of people athletes are off the field is a waste of time.
Coaches who seek to hone the mental and physical skills of winning while ignoring moral virtues of honor and decency too often produce magnificent competitors who are menaces to society.
Perhaps coaches of elite athletes not connected with educational or youth-serving institutions can operate in this moral vacuum, but all others have a responsibility to teach, enforce, advocate, and model aspects of good character such as trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship.
Whether it’s sports, business, or politics, whenever we divorce issues of competence from character, we create a class of amoral professionals who think they’re exempt from common standards of honor and decency. This discredits and demeans the moral standing of everyone involved.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.



Comments
We would like to divide sports into two divisions, educational (college, high school, youth) and entertainment (professional). The reality is that what Phil Jackson, Stan Van Gundy, Dwight Howard and Kobe Bryant say and do educates many coaches, athletes and parents. Whether they intend to or not, coaches and players at the professional level are teaching by example. There are not two acceptable standards of behavior, one for professionals and another for all the rest.
It seems we excuse the behavior of professionals or adults and hold youth and amateurs to a higher standard.
Posted by: Scott Galloway | June 19, 2009 10:38 AM
If more coaches would look at the career of John Wooden, they would understand that winning is not separate from honesty, integrity, responsibility, compassion, respect, and fairness. There seems to be a present-day belief that these traits somehow diminish the ability to win. Coach Wooden knew that good character built good men, which made good players, which developed a winning basketball program. Have you ever wondered why we haven't seen such a dominant college team since Coach Wooden left UCLA? Just look at many of the players, coaches and administrators involved in college sports programs these days and it's not difficult to answer.
Posted by: James | June 19, 2009 12:04 PM