Tell Someone You’re Proud of Them 577.5
An unanticipated benefit of the contest the Institute is conducting asking listeners to tell us how these commentaries have impacted their lives is that my almost 12-year-old daughter Carissa was impressed.
She has seen me write and heard me record these messages her entire life, but there was something about the contest letters that made her finally realize why it’s so important to me to burn the midnight oil almost every night.
I probably should be long past the vanity of enjoying praise and savoring kind words about my work, but I’m not – especially where my children are concerned. Maybe I’m shallow, but I love being a hero in their eyes.
I knew I reached a new level when Carissa asked me, “Do you think anyone has named their dog after you?” That may seem an off-the-wall question to you, but I understood what she was thinking. You see, my wife named our three dogs after L.A. Lakers – Kobe, Pau, and Sasha. To Carissa, the ultimate measure of a celebrity is to be admired enough so people will name their pets after you.
I had to admit I didn’t think I’d achieved quite that pinnacle of fame yet, but I was pleased that so many people do listen to and read what I have to say.
Still, the interchange reminded me how important it is to earn the admiration of one’s children. Having someone you care about express his or her pride in you is an eternal gift. Why not make it a point in the next few weeks to give that gift to all those you know who deserve it?
And if there’s someone you’re exceptionally proud of, name your pet after them. It would please Carissa.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

Comments
Well, MJ might make a nifty dog name. . .
;)
Posted by: liz | August 1, 2008 4:12 AM
Hello Michael J,
I promise to name my next beta fish after you.
Keep up the great work!
Peace - Steven S
Santa Monica
Posted by: Steven S | August 1, 2008 6:41 AM
My Sweetie (Adam) and I wrote a fun story/coloring book for three neighboring youth about how their farm was originally started by two of their goats and how eventually the goats allowed the (human) kids' parents to live there and start a family of their own. The (human) kids were very happy with the story, and when their goats bore two kids that spring, they named them "Heidi" and "Adam." Both of those goats are still around, still making kids of their own. It is a real treat to have kids named after us!
Posted by: Heidi Haugen | August 5, 2008 2:50 PM
I truly enjoy your columns and radio bits, but I have to question naming anything "Kobe" when "Character Counts."
Posted by: Marjorie McMahon | August 16, 2008 1:47 PM