IN THIS ISSUE
Program Development: Destination R&R – Giving Thanks to Military Families
Faces of CC!: CC! Assembly Programs
Faces of CC!: Educational Programs Department
Character in the Curriculum: National Earth Science Week
Free Resources for Teachers: Free Books for Schools
Commentary by Michael Josephson: The Power of Words
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"The strong man is not the good wrestler; the strong man is the only one who controls himself when he is angry."
-- Muhammad, founder of Islam (c. 570-632)
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Program Development
Destination R&R – Giving Thanks to Military Families
Parenting is a tough job. Possibly the toughest job of your life. Imagine how much harder it becomes when you return wounded from active service. Simple things like picking your children up when they fall, helping them tie their shoe-laces, or simply being there for them become tougher than you believed possible.
The trauma of war remains long after the return home, impacting the lives of everyone involved. Physically and psychologically injured personnel face the prospect of months in rehabilitation, and family roles are constantly under pressure. Children wonder why their mommies or daddies have changed so much and why they are no longer like other parents. The pressure to carry on in the face of overwhelming adversity can crack even the happiest families.
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Injured Military Personnel and Their Families Attended |
While the physical and psychological needs of injured personnel are taken care of, this leads to more time away from their loved ones. Spouses may have to take on a new job to cope with the financial demands when the main breadwinner is unable to provide. Finding either the time or the money to be together as a family and focus on each other in a stress-free environment is often an impossibility.
The Blewitt Foundation
Rich Blewitt, chairman of Josephson Institute’s board of governors, set up The Blewitt Foundation to turn that into a reality.
Destination R&R is an all-expense-paid retreat for injured military personnel and their families. Applications are handled by the National Military Family Association (NMFA), a nonprofit group representing the interests of military personnel and their families. Applicants are asked to provide information detailing their combat wounds and physical and mental independence. Additionally, and more importantly, they’re asked how their injuries have affected their family life. One excerpt read “I have been a soldier since I was 17. My children have always seen me as a strong person involved in many sports. I am unable to do that anymore. My boys now see me as being handicapped in certain ways as I am unable to take care of myself.”
This summer, the Turf Valley Resort in Ellicott City, MD, hosted one hundred very important guests. Prior to their arrival, staff attended sensitivity training to help them understand the special considerations required by the injured. How to assist without being over bearing, how to relate without being condescending, and how to ensure the atmosphere was truly recuperative.
An Emotional Thanks
“Never in my 24 years in hospitality management have we had the honor to serve a more well-deserved group,” Pete Mangione, general manager of the Turf Valley Resort, told us in a recent telephone interview. “Seeing people who have made such sacrifices with no regret was an incredibly moving experience,” he said, his voice cracking with emotion.
In addition to enjoying the resort amenities, the participants were introduced to the CHARACTER COUNTS! framework and the Six Pillars of Character. CC! national director Julie Dwyer said, “CC! permeated the environment and impacted those in attendance in very special ways.” In testimonials written by the children, the predominant experience was one of compassion. “I learned that other people care,” wrote one.
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A Visit to the Orioles Game |
More than 40 youth from 4 to 15 participated. Being with other families facing similar challenges, seeing others helping their daddies move around, watching others coping with how their mommy changed when she was away, and realizing there are so many people they can turn to when they feel at their lowest provided hope. That same youngster explained why it was important to learn that others care: “Because I didn’t feel that people cared before.”
A former Navy journalist, Blewitt knows only too well how the traumas and memories of war linger and intrude on lives just when they are trying to regain normalcy. Destination R&R is “a small token of appreciation to bring fun, hope, and smiles to faces that haven’t had that in a long time.”
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R&R Courtesy of The Blewitt Foundation |
Looking to the Future
The emphasis was on R&R, but there was also a chance to look to the future, something many hadn’t dared to do, struggling as they are with the challenges of the present. University of Maryland University College (UMUC) was on hand to provide computer training, help children set up websites, and offer advice on further education opportunities. Four lucky recipients were awarded a $5,000 education grant at the farewell dinner, and Connections Academy gifted a laptop computer to each family to help maintain the skills learned in Web design.
Too often the politics of war get in the way of the people involved. The Blewitt Foundation has created a program that gets to the heart of the matter by bringing together brave people who have selflessly served their country. You can see for yourself what a difference five days made to this year’s participants by watching The Blewitt Foundation video here.
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Fun and Games with the Six Pillars of Character
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The plan is to continue these five-day retreats throughout the year using the CC! framework to show love and appreciation. We know the efforts of all involved were greatly appreciated, and maybe life will be a little more manageable for the families.
We wish them well. If you would like to donate to The Blewitt Foundation to help them continue these essential and unique retreats, please visit their site.
Donations can also be sent to the Foundation at the following address:
The Blewitt Foundation, 23065 Tail Race Road, Aldie, VA 20105
What do you think? Post a response to this article in the CC! Local News Blog.
"There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that relects it."
-- Edith Wharton, American Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist (1862-1937)
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Training
CC! Assembly Programs
Jumping around, yelling, singing at the top of their voices. Sounds like bad classroom management, but actually we encourage it.
CC! is partnering with several organizations to offer dynamic and energetic character-education programs that can be tailored to your school’s needs. This month we are highlighting two of those partners, Paul Tracey and Phil Baker. Each offers an original take on character education that brings the message of CC! to life in ways you would never expect.
Phil Baker transforms groups of pre-K through 12th grade students into a school of rock with “Character Rocks.” Emphasizing the values of the Six Pillars of Character through music, it can be adapted to a wide range of groups ranging from peer-leadership development to family sessions. We’re sure you’ll agree Baker’s programs hit all the right notes.
“I love performing for children because if I do it well enough, I can inspire others to great achievements.” So says Paul Tracey, who brings music and magic to his assembly programs for younger kids. Inspired by a musician who led an assembly program when he was a student, Tracey received a lifetime achievement award from the California Alliance for Arts Education. His character-education assembly is suitable for children in grades K-6.
A program assembly with one of these partners would be a great way to kick off your CC! Week events. Check out their websites for booking information.
Faces of CC!
Educational Programs Department
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Kendric Shumaker, Kayli Moran & Maya Hill |
Last year Josephson Institute organized more than 130 seminars, trainings, and workshops. Not one of them would have been possible without the dedication, expertise, and attention to detail of Kendric Shumaker, Kayli Moran, and Maya Hill – the Educational Programs Department.
Shumaker, Moran, and Hill are involved at every step of the way to ensure all of our training courses run smoothly. They maintain lists of CDS graduates, ensure the timely arrival of materials, speakers, and facilitators, and coordinate the graduate lists to help everyone keep in touch.
Here they talk about the antidote to greed, walking the walk and talking the talk, and remembering to send out thank-you notes (presumably to encourage greed’s antidote – generosity).
How do you define good character?
Kendric: Knowing the difference between right and wrong and choosing right when wrong is easier.
Can such values be taught?
Kayli: We can inform others of certain values and encourage their importance, but ultimately it’s the individual’s choice to retain the lesson.
How do you gauge a person’s character?
Maya: By a person’s actions. Talk is cheap.
Kayli: By what someone does and does not do. What you allow, you encourage.
Kendric: By their actions.
(Ed.: We see a theme developing here…)
What (or who) is your idea of a role model?
Kendric: Role model is a term that has been cheapened by the media, which uses this title on anyone. It should be attached to an individual’s immediate sphere of influence such as a parent, teacher, or community leader. It’s within everybody’s reach to be a role model.
Do you consider yourself a role model?
Maya: Yes. Both my positive and negative characteristics can be a learning lesson for many.
Who is your hero and why?
Kayli: My coworkers because they have the patience to put up with me every day.
What is your favorite virtue?
Kendric: Generosity. If the root of all evil is greed, then its antidote must be the answer.
What is the most important lesson you’ve learned?
Kayli: A friend once told me “Everyone deserves a second chance.” She passed away a few years ago. Whenever I don’t want to grant that second chance, I think of her and attempt to follow the guideline she set for her life.
What lesson would you like to learn?
Maya: Better time-management skills for life. I always spend too much time on some things and not nearly enough on others.
Who was your favorite teacher and why?
Kendric: Mr. Busteed, high school social studies teacher. Not only was he knowledgeable about his subject, but he treated me like an adult and with respect.
If you could change one thing about your character, what would it be?
Kendric: Be more generous.
Kayli: Patience… always patience.
If you could add one more subject to the school curriculum, what would it be?
Maya: How to Get a Job 101. A lot of young people have not learned valuable job-hunting skills such as resume writing and interviewing techniques, and they are lost when it comes to securing meaningful employment.
What is your biggest regret?
Kayli: Not sending out enough thank-you notes. It’s such a simple way to let people know how much you appreciate them.
"Life is never so bad at its worst that it is impossible to live; it is never so good at its best that it is easy to live."
-- Gabriel Heatter, American radio commentator (1890-1972)
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Character in the Curriculum |
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Foundations for Life program offers free writing prompts, lesson plans, and cross-curricular connections based on character-related maxims that complement your existing programs.
Learn more about Foundations for Life at www.FFL-essays.org.
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Monthly Lesson Plan:
National Earth Science Week |
| This year marks the tenth annual Earth Science Week. Learning about the planet and how to protect natural resources is a great opportunity for kids to experience firsthand the consequences of decisions they make and to ask “What could happen if we stop caring about the planet?”
This month’s secondary lesson plan introduces students to the Arctic food chain, polar bears, and the impact of melting ice. Elementary students will explore the other side of the world, learning about the changing ice fields in Antarctica.
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Free Books for Schools
Wouldn’t it be amazing if we all saw each other as purple people? That’s the question posed by Tami Pivnick and Susan Faith, the founders of Purple People Books. Faith has traveled throughout the U.S. and beyond with two publications from Purple People Books, Purple Love and Purple Puppy. Both teach messages of love, respect, honesty, and citizenship and are suitable for younger children. And they’re free.
Purple Planet was launched to spread the word of equality. If your school would like to receive a free copy of either book, visit the Purple People Books site and submit your request. The purple people will either send you a copy directly or contact a school that already has a copy through this initiative and ask that they send theirs to your school.
When your book arrives, your students’ responses can be posted online and your school can connect with others who have read the book. You can also research where the books have traveled on the Purple People site.
Commentary by Michael Josephson
Adapted from Michael Josephson's Gabriel Award-winning radio commentaries, airing Monday through Friday across the nation.
The Power of Words
“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.”
Really? In fact, insults, teasing, malicious gossip, and verbal abuse inflict deeper and more enduring pain than guns and knives.
Ask anyone who as a kid was fat, skinny, unusually short or tall, flat-chested or big busted, acne-faced, uncoordinated, slow-witted, or exceptionally smart. In schoolrooms and playgrounds across the country, weight, height, looks, and intelligence are the subject of taunting and ridicule more than race or religion.
And it doesn't necessarily get better. Unkind words, tasteless personal jokes, brutal criticism and ridicule don't lose their sting when we become adults.
There's nothing new about this. But if we trivialize how damaging words can be, especially to youngsters, the ethical significance of verbal assaults can be lost. When we claim words can't hurt anyone, we negate genuine feelings of those who are hurt.
Instead of minimizing the importance of words, we should encourage parents and teachers to demand a higher level of respect and greater sensitivity precisely because words are enormously powerful.
Yes, we should try to fortify our children's sense of self-worth so they can bear insults and sarcasm better. We should urge them not to take what others say too seriously. But it's just as important to teach them that words have the power of grenades and must be used carefully.
This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.
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